Hey look a blog!

I'm Xander and I write about food, sex, LGBTQ* issues, writing, veganism, and nerdy things! Eventually I might have recipes because this was once a food blog but I don't even know anymore


Reblogged from neptunesbounty

Beauty of the Universe II - Colors.

(Source: neptunesbounty, via queeraspie)

Reblogged from zeonhime

koulin:

pewpuupalace:

zeonhime:

the worst feeling about trying to draw is being a mediocre artist. You realize you’re not terrible and family and friends who can’t draw at all tell you all the time how amazing you are, but you, as the artist, have seen what amazing really is and you realize that it isn’t you.

500% me

oh my fuck god

this post

just

this post.

This is how I feel anytime I re-read anything I write.

(via agender-unicorn)

It’s official I do not give a shit about straight opinions on queer issues

Here is a quick reminder to not touch other people without their consent. The gender or sexual orientation of the people involved are irrelevant: don’t do it!!

I don’t give a fuck if you’re a gay man, you have no right to a woman’s body simply because you are not interested in doing anything sexual.

Transmen, too, you do not get to touch a woman without her okay, either.

In general just don’t be an asshole and respect women’s space, boundaries, and bodies, okay.

Please don’t be an asshole!

Reblogged from gllow

gllow:

a world where gaydar is not an excuse to be ignorant and stereotype but is instead a laser gun developed by years of gay labor that fires powerful radiation waves at the cishet opponent setting them on fire. flaming homosexuals? more like flaming heterosexuals. the cishets are on fire. this is anarchy.

(via shutthefuckupstraightpeople)

Reblogged from i-should-be-writing

Gender is:

a series of complicated social constructs that vary from culture to culture, often even decade to decade within the same culture

nonbinary

fluid and flexible and not necessarily static from the date of birth to the date of death, but sometimes it is, and both are okay

male or female or both or neither or sometimes one or the other or both at the same time or —

And a person’s gender is their gender and none of your business. A person’s gender is what they identify as and that is the only qualifier necessary. It can change from year to year or even hour to hour, and it is still valid. Their pronoun preferences deserve to be respected, even if you don’t understand them. “But zie isn’t a real word” is not a valid excuse. “But they is a PLURAL” is not a valid excuse. “But I see you as” is not a valid excuse. Call a person what they wish to be called. Any reason you can come up with for denying them that basic respect makes you an asshole.

Reblogged from reyairia

reyairia:

70% of editing is just looking at ur work for a few hours with this face

image

Because I know some people who would really appreciate this right now.

(via victorianbmx)

Reblogged from iwantcupcakes

zwerven:

iwantcupcakes:

Vulture tells Mark Ruffalo about Science Bros.  Mark loves it, plans to call RDJ about it.

From Vulture:

Does that mean he’s never heard of “Science Bros,” an Internet subculture celebrating the friendship of Bruce Banner and Tony Stark, the characters Ruffalo and Robert Downey Jr. played in The Avengers?

“No, what is that?” he asked.

And then the giggles began.

  • “Yes! It’s me and Robert! Look at this! There’s thousands of them!” Ruffalo tried to contain himself. “It’s called the Science Bros. This is awesome. I’ve never heard of it. Why hasn’t anyone told me about that?”
  • “So, are they all quasi-homoerotic?” he asked. “Like tinged with … ” Yup. “That’s cute!” 
  • Is he now a Science Bros shipper, then? “Yeah! I love it; it’s awesome,” Ruffalo enthused. “I endorse it 100 percent. You know what it is? It’s open-source creativity.”
  • Ruffalo couldn’t wait to drop his newfound knowledge bomb on Downey Jr. “I’m going to call him and tell him, and he’s going to laugh his ass off,” Ruffalo said. “He’ll love that.”
(read more)

I USUALLY HATE WHEN PEOPLE TELL ACTORS ABOUT THIS SHIT BUT WOW HE REACTED SO JOVIAL THAT’S ADORABLE

WESLEYYYYYYYYY

(via sunshien)

Reblogged from beautyisanillusion
Most of the writers I know are weird hybrids. There’s a strong streak of egomania coupled with extreme shyness. Writing’s kind of like exhibitionism in private. And there’s also a strange loneliness, and a desire to have some kind of conversation with people, but not a real great ability to do it in person. David Foster Wallace (via dulcetdecember)

(Source: beautyisanillusion, via queeraspie)